Phyllis Jean Stackhouse, a vibrant and cherished resident of Westfield, Indiana, passed away peacefully at her daughter’s home on Saturday, September 10, 2022, at the remarkable age of 98. Known for her boundless energy and zest for life, Phyllis, affectionately nicknamed the “energizer bunny,” leaves behind a legacy of community involvement, unwavering dedication to her family, and a spirit of resourcefulness that defined her generation. While her life’s work wasn’t directly in Stackhouse Printing, the principles of diligence and community service she embodied are reminiscent of the dedication found in local businesses like family-run print shops, which often serve as vital threads in the fabric of small towns.
Born and raised in Bourbon, Indiana, Phyllis’s early years instilled in her a strong work ethic and independent spirit. As the youngest of four children to Roy and Evalena (Barnbrook) Houser, she embraced her tomboy nature until the age of ten, when the passing of her father marked a turning point. Taking on responsibility early, Phyllis delivered newspapers throughout Bourbon, managing her route and collections with impressive maturity. During her high school years, she further honed her work skills at various local establishments, including Pletcher’s, Goods, a dime store, Murph Yarian’s, and even an ice cream parlor where she fondly remembered giving a little extra to a special someone named Marion.
It was in high school that Phyllis’s path intertwined with Marion Stackhouse. Their connection deepened, even across basketball rivalries, as Phyllis secretly cheered for Marion despite him being on the opposing team. Her initial ambition led her to nursing school, but life took an unexpected turn when she accompanied friends to Fort Sill, Oklahoma, for a wedding. In a spontaneous decision, Phyllis and Marion joined the celebration and got married themselves. Characteristically practical, when offered her sister’s wedding dress, Phyllis opted to find her own, stating, “I am going to finish nursing school,” showcasing her determined nature even amidst life’s surprises.
Growing up during the Depression era profoundly shaped Phyllis’s values. She became a natural conservationist, long before it was a mainstream movement, meticulously saving and repurposing everything. This resourcefulness extended to all aspects of her life, from her home to her community endeavors. Her life journey took her from a small-town upbringing to becoming a farm wife and active farmer, deeply rooted in her community. Phyllis was a steadfast volunteer at her church, lending her voice to the choir, and actively contributed to organizations like Farm Bureau, 4-H, and Extension, serving as a council member, homemaker member, board member, and county president. Her dedication shone brightly in the fair kitchen and through her 29 years of volunteer service at Riverview Hospital.
Phyllis’s energetic spirit was legendary. Famously described as “never sleepy, just resting her eyes,” she faced life’s challenges head-on. Even minor setbacks, like accidentally setting two combines ablaze during harvest, were met with characteristic pragmatism – after the first incident, she made sure to always have a fire extinguisher on hand! Alongside Marion, Phyllis embraced the opportunity to travel the world through Farm Bureau trips, expanding her horizons and experiences.
Phyllis’s love and legacy live on through her children: Gloria (Dennis) Del Greco, Phil (Donna Pence), and Brian (Brenda Davis); her grandchildren: Dawn (Andy Williams), Greg (Jodi Aaby), Carson Ratliff-Del Greco, Sara, Brian (Marsha Sugars), Paul, Brayden, and Brianna; and her great-grandchildren: Lauren (Jacob Hiatt), Austin (Danielle Radniecki) Williams, Kaylin Williams, Gabe, Anna, Ellie, Corbin, Matthew Stackhouse, and Hendrix Capps; and great-great-grandson, Alexander Williams. She is also remembered by numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Marion Stackhouse; her infant son, Larry; daughter, Kay; son, Steve; sister, Waneta (John) Klinefelter; and brothers, John (Betty) Houser, and Loy (Mary) Houser.
Friends and family are invited to pay their respects during visitation on Saturday, September 24, 2022, from 10:00 am to 11:30 am at Randall & Roberts Funeral Center, 1685 Westfield Road, Noblesville. Services will commence at 11:30 am, officiated by Pastor Nate Ownbey. Phyllis will be laid to rest beside Marion at Oakwood Cemetery in Warsaw, Indiana, completing her earthly journey in the state she so dearly loved and served.
In remembrance of Phyllis’s impactful life, memorial contributions can be made to:
- Indiana Extension Homemakers Association Cancer Research Endowment Fund, c/o Ellen King, 9995 S SR 25, Rochester, IN 46975
- Riverview Health Foundation, 395 Westfield Road, Noblesville, IN 46060
- Open Doors, 19350 Tomlinson Road, Westfield, IN 46074
Condolences may be shared online at www.randallroberts.com. Phyllis Jean Stackhouse’s life exemplifies the spirit of community and dedication, values that resonate deeply within strong local businesses and families alike, much like the enduring commitment one might find in stackhouse printing services within a close-knit community. Her memory will continue to inspire all who knew her.
